• Flying SquidOP
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    25 days ago

    I don’t have to ask. I just assume whoever I’m talking to hates me.

    • @[email protected]
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      25 days ago

      *I* do not, and if there’s one, then surely there’s more like me? :-P

      Moreover, I think it’s impressive that you have dedicated so much of your efforts to improving people’s experiences here on the Fediverse. Even if people disagree with you on some point - which for myself I am aware of nothing but even if there were - that would still be true. You probably don’t get thanked often, so I offer it, and I hope that you will accept.

      But also, I hope that you find a way to show kindness to yourself too:-). Our families may have royally fucked us up for life, but we can do different, for ourselves! Or at least, I very much (desperately) hope that can be true.

      • Flying SquidOP
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        5 days ago

        I try to show kindness through my volunteer work, although I’ve done less of it in the past year since my illness leave me with very little energy and I have to use that to take care of my daughter.

        Also, thank you!

        • @[email protected]
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          24 days ago

          Indeed, I find that if we don’t take care of ourselves, we become a burden to others and can’t help anyone, so that’s so important to remember (that if we want to help “others”, it has to start with ourselves).