• @[email protected]
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    411 hours ago

    Yeah, I was just thinking about all the young people who were in WW1 and WW2.

    TRAUMA has a maturing effect, whether one desires it or not.

    • @[email protected]
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      48 hours ago

      When I was young people used to tell me “You’re wise beyond your years” Thanks! That’d be the trauma.

    • @kofe
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      16 hours ago

      This really depends long-term. Not everyone that experiences trauma develops PTSD, but at least speaking for myself, I’ve had a few decades of hopelessness, helplessness, and a lot of general emotional immaturity for my age. Particularly since so much of it occurred when I was a kid and heard the line about being mature…I regress to that childish mindset often in my 30s still. It’s taken a lot of effort to develop the social support I’ve needed in conjunction with therapy and education to even start the process of actively healing rather than just surviving.