• UnhingedFridgeEnglish
      19•2 months ago

      “Cope,” "seethe, “cry harder;” as examples. Basically just stuff that would harsh the mood if we were all just chilling at a pub. It’s cool that you have different ideas, but there’s a certain toxicity to calling out the misfortune and fears of others that promotes negativity in the community.

      You can celebrate your win and different perceptions in ways that don’t feel as rude, hateful, and divisive. You don’t have to, but that means people aren’t going to like you or want you to be a part of the discussion.

      • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
        -16•2 months ago

        Honestly, it’s hard to not make fun of your opponents when they lose. We do it everywhere. Like in sports. I guess you’re right though. Considering the tense nature of the community, I shouldn’t have let the urges get the better of me. Thanks for the reply.

        • @[email protected]English
          15•2 months ago

          Oh gosh, it’s SO hard not to kick people when they’re down. So glad to hear such an untoxic sentiment from such a good sportsman.

        • UnhingedFridgeEnglish
          5•2 months ago

          I feel that, though sport is kinda in the name, and playful banter makes sense. When we get into politics and laws, people’s futures, there’s more on the table than just teams. Nobody is worrying about their children and family members when a sports team gets thrashed.

          And of course, you deserve proper input and not the same hurled right back.

          • @lemonmelon
            10•2 months ago

            Counterpoint: if you put toxic bullshit out into the world, don’t cry “they’re picking on me” when you get toxic bullshit directed back at you.

            • UnhingedFridgeEnglish
              5•2 months ago

              Agreed 100%, I just wanted to take the opportunity to explain a simple concept that their parents may have never given them.