• FlashMobOfOne
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    522 days ago

    It only matters when someone wants to make their dislike of you your problem.

    I competed in roller derby with a guy who told me to my face he didn’t like me, but he was respectful and never withheld coaching, scrimmaged with me and was a good teammate, and we otherwise just stayed out of each others’ space. We just didn’t have personalities that meshed.

    It was no big deal.

      • FlashMobOfOne
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        162 days ago

        I don’t think it occurs to many people that you can dislike someone and also not actively be a jerk to them.