• @yesman
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    531 month ago

    Y’all ever notice how much male sexuality is performative for the benefit of other men? I’m not saying that they’re gay, they just seem more motivated by peer approval and status than touching a girl.

    I recently saw an interview with a stripper who said that the dudes who wanted attention from the girls used $100 bills and were discrete, while the dudes who tossed 100 $1 bills were more interested in the attention of their buddies.

    • @eronth
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      191 month ago

      There’s a weird thing with “conquest”, pulling the ladies, and being somewhat deviant that’s tied to manliness and straightness for some reason.

      • @Shou
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        -130 days ago

        The guy is right though. Testosterone peaks as a result of social circumstances.

        • @[email protected]
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          29 days ago

          Nothing about testosterone makes you sadistically drug and sexually exploit your wife for decades.

          • @Shou
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            -127 days ago

            It does decrease sensitivity to consequences and decrease empathy. It also results in dominance seeking behaviour. It’s why what happened to the victim, is done more often by men than women.

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      29 days ago

      Another interesting thing, in that same vein, is asexual or lesbian women that just go along with being in heterosexual relationships with men because it’s ‘normal’ or convenient.