• @Valmond
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    216 hours ago

    Yes exactly.

    Especially things you cannot change, but I guess that’s the thing making it even worse.

    • @[email protected]
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      216 hours ago

      The thing you can change is your outlook and interpretation regarding the immutable parts of yourself. Your attitude about something is almost always much more important than the thing itself when it comes to relationships.

      • @Valmond
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        013 hours ago

        Yes, and in reverse, make some tiny thing a huge problem is also possible :-)