• @Fandangalo
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    473 days ago

    I agree with the sentiment, but emotional care does take energy. When people are feeling hopeless and powerless, it saps their ability to be compassionate because it takes energy. See Caregiver burnout.

    • @essell
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      233 days ago

      I agree.

      “Compassion Fatigue” is a real thing therapists talk about.

      Half the therapy horror stories I hear sound like they’re born out of that.

      • zea
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        93 days ago

        I’ve had to tell friends a few times I cannot reciprocate feelings.

        • @nomous
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          22 days ago

          Right? I feel like this person posting this has never had someone just trauma dump on them, it’s exhausting.

        • Cris
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          23 days ago

          Happy lemmy anniversary :)

      • @[email protected]
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        12 days ago

        “Therapy horror story” sounds like a weird horror movie sub-genre!

        (But on a serious note, that’s why it’s important to set boundaries/limits while providing care)