• @Pregnenolone
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    364 hours ago

    As someone who is a bit older than the average 4chan user, but used 4chan when I was that age: don’t change your hobbies for a girl/boy.

    I get the reason people think this way - but you’ll never be able to hide who you truly are. Find someone who likes you for who you truly are.

    And no, not showering isn’t who you truly are. Shower.

    • @[email protected]
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      11 hour ago

      I feel like hiding/changing self is oftentimes easier than finding someone who likes one as-is. Most people are quite stereotyped and prefers being normal.

      • @Pregnenolone
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        16 minutes ago

        “Easier” is a copout in the long term if you’re giving up your happiness for someone else. “Normal” is a spectrum and not absolute.

        I get it though - loneliness sucks arse. For plenty of people desperation makes them want to make radical changes. I promise though that a lot of people get stuck thinking they’ll only have one opportunity at happiness