- becoming (financially) independant of abusive narc parent
- own job and benefits/pension
- own bills and own (no goddamn roomates) place to live
- own pets they have zero fucking say in whether i can keep for the rest of our lives regardless of if they wanna move one of their loser kids they pretend have allergies into muh space which they cant do lol
I don’t like going into too much detail about my personal life so I’ll mention a few that don’t reveal too much: