I think not living is better than growing up neglected with only bullying as love. It’s better to not live than to watch your relatives live real lives while you sit in a corner playing a video game so you’re out of sight. It’s better to not live than to have everyone in your family hate you for being dependent, but also hate you when you ask for help on being independent. It’s just not a life worth living for both parties. The real relatives deserve real lives that doesn’t involve taking care of some burden nobody wants, and the other shouldn’t live as a burden nobody wants. So many unwanted kids are put in group homes where they stagnate more solely because their parents didn’t want to try raising them. Death is better than living in prison for being unwanted.
I really am under the impression that this is a baited question.
Because you’ve not once described a scenario in which a child is dealing with something that you deem ‘isn’t worth dealing with’.
Being completely neglected and basically abandoned by parents and family who gave up on you is not a life worth living. If I had died the day I was misdiagnosed, I’d be way better off than I am right now. And I’m one of the luckier ones who actually had a chance to work. The others were just as capable of working and growing as every other normal person, and they live sad sedentary lifestyles where their lives peaked at a very young age. If you want to raise a disabled kid go for it. If not, then your kid is only going to suffer.