• @BonesOfTheMoonOP
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    2 hours ago

    That’s fine, but cheating on your wife isn’t nice and I’m going to say so, and neither is abusing much younger women. Young women have been murdered in violent BDSM relationships. It’s honestly toxic in my opinion. Which I know isn’t popular, but also don’t groom young women and cheat on your wife.

    • a Kendrick fan
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      52 hours ago

      but cheating on your wife isn’t nice

      i understand the sentimental writeup but there was no requirement to be nice, only scaring and unsettling facts

    • Flying Squid
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      22 hours ago

      And after what happened with Neil Gaiman, I have to wonder how consensual such situations like this are. In fact, I originally thought this was a Neil Gaiman reference, but he’s 64.

      • @WilderSeek
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        21 hour ago

        I would be more hopeful to believe it was consensual was except they bragged their wife doesn’t know. I’ve been in enough situations through chats to learn people like this exist and managed to abuse others—even virtually. There can be healthy relationships in BDSM, but the community often attracts predators for a reason.

        • Flying Squid
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          11 hour ago

          Right, it was the much younger women and not telling his wife parts that made me a little concerned about how consensual the relationships are.