I thought to just make a public post about this. I’ve seen many people get married with the vows “Death Do Us Part”
This is a good vow don’t get me wrong but I’d encourage finding an alternative that doesn’t include death unless you truly mean it. What this entails if you mean it,
If someone cheats. The other partner has the right to kill them, if one tries leaving without mutual agreement. The other one can kill them. It’s not about anything unhealthy but two people collectively agreeing to a statement.
If you don’t want that then something like Till Time Do Us Part.
This way there is no death involved and your relationship isn’t built on a false and shallow promise.
Like any weddings I go to. I will call out, if they ever ask if anyone opposes. Then I’ll explain this.
Totally normal behavior.
Also in my culture. One of them if you would break a vow it could lead to heavy punishment or death. The other you say what you mean and nothing more and breaking vows. Are deeply harmful.
It’s important people don’t build their marriage off a shallow vow. I mean I wouldn’t want to my marriage to built off something I don’t mean.
Why have you assumed that it’s your responsibility to make this determination about someone else’s relationship?
Fucking weird, man.
Hmmm it’s weird. I didn’t realize. I think it’s more not my responsibility but more it annoys me how shallow meaning can become or dimmed down.
I just uninvited you to my hypothetical wedding
Hypothetically, may I bring them as a plus 1?