• @frog_brawler
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    24 hours ago

    Having a backbone would be to stick around and fight this shit; not flee.

    • RamenJunkie
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      11 hour ago

      People have been fighting for like 8 years now.

      Its over, sometimes it best to just walk away.

    • @r0ertel
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      64 hours ago

      That’s a bit harsh. Like my old man always said, “you gotta know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em; know when to walk away and know when to run.”

      • @[email protected]
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        23 hours ago

        That song is about a gambler’s desire for selfish self-preservation, not “having a backbone”

      • @frog_brawler
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        23 hours ago

        It’s not. Granted, I 100% respect and understand someone’s decision to leave the USA at this time, but there’s very little that’s courageous about putting yourself into a better situation. It’s the next option up from rolling over and dying.

        • @bitwaba
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          53 hours ago

          Yeah, walking away from every person you’ve ever known and every support system you’ve ever had in hopes of a better future with no real promises to fall back on if it doesn’t work out isn’t courageous at all.

          • @frog_brawler
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            2 hours ago

            I’d call courageous moving into a red state… and then everything you said above still applies. I moved from a red state to a blue state in October. Everything you said applies to me, but I can assure you that my decision was not one that was “courageous.” It’s self preservation.