is it because of the “pick me, choose me, love me” thing or does she actually behave like a pick me?

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    25 days ago

    I’ve been binging Grey’s (currently on the Covid season) and wouldn’t consider Mer to be a “pick me girl”. Especially after Derek, she has focused on her career and family and only has occasional flings. Her self esteem doesn’t come from any sort of external validation.

    A quote from this season about Mer sums it up well: You’ve always been your own person. A force of nature. You’ve never needed anyone but you.

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        35 days ago

        The article does not say that the actress felt that Meredith was a “pick me girl”. It highlighted one specific scene that she felt was cringe, but fans of the show loved.

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          -15 days ago

          Sure, she only said it was cringe for one of the primary reasons that pick me girls are cringe.

          Weird hill to die on, but you do you.

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            24 days ago

            I think our definition of “pick me girl” is different which is why we’re not seeing eye-to-eye.

            • @Jarix
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              44 days ago

              I’m the Dragon Lance novels Kitiara is character that has bonded with an adult blue dragon calles Sky i think.

              You two areguing makes me think you are about bond with each other, as kitiara didnt start out as one of rhe bad guys but ended up being a major person in the evil army

              Just a coincidence in your names but amusing to me for the coincidence of it

              • @reptar
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                34 days ago

                Sometimes I think I’m too stoned for lemmy.

                I love books though so ::thumbs-up::

                • @Jarix
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                  54 days ago

                  Sometimes in think i should be more stoned for Lemmy, or at least stoned more often

                  • @reptar
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                    34 days ago

                    I like to read sci-fi. You read any sci-fi? Anything you really liked?

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                24 days ago

                It’s been entirely too long since I read those books!

                I didn’t think me and the other guy were arguing, though. There were no bad feelings.