So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • @saltesc
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    Eh, just say, “I’m trying to flirt with you. How’s it doing?”

    And if she laughs, you’re in. If she does squirmy-squirm face, “Well, I had to try. Now let’s enjoy this awkward silence together.” And stare at the ground silently, but for no more than three seconds.

    • kat
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      55 days ago

      Never more than 3 seconds. Listen up guys, most important part!

      • @saltesc
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        4 days ago

        Well, then it actually is awkward instead of a confident, “I saw this coming lol” silence.