This is how people end up in therapy thirty years later asking “why has a lifetime of ignoring how I feel Led me into such difficult places in my life?”
You should totally acknowledge the actual feelings of the kid and give it the sentiment of being taken serious. I think this here is about a phenomenon you might see sometimes, when adults are acting extremely worried as soon as a kid has a little accident and the child starts crying just because of the alarming behavior of the adults.
This is how people end up in therapy thirty years later asking “why has a lifetime of ignoring how I feel Led me into such difficult places in my life?”
But the kid is feeling fine. Ignoring how they feel would, in this case, be acting overly worried.
If the kid is feeling fine, yeah.
Its the conditions of worth that get created around it, like rules for life.
You should totally acknowledge the actual feelings of the kid and give it the sentiment of being taken serious. I think this here is about a phenomenon you might see sometimes, when adults are acting extremely worried as soon as a kid has a little accident and the child starts crying just because of the alarming behavior of the adults.