Why some men bully and hate on women who post here their own images? Specifically women who have a link in their bio.

As somebody who is not enjoying watching nor listening to ads, I understand that part, but we still get to see those beautiful/sexy photos/videos for free.

And even those women who post without any aggressive promotion, variety of content (not recycling the same photo in different sub-communities), not providing any links directly in their posts nor asking for anything and just enjoying being social, get attacked too. Why?

What has happened to live and let live? Why being so rude and disrespectful? I truly don’t get it.

I mean I have a theory, but I would hate to offend anyone, it’s just not in me to be disrespectful, so I keep it to myself for now.

That said, I also would like to acknowledge that vast majority of Lemmy NSWF members are awesome and many thanks to you all for building this fun community.

    • Kaye OP
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      11 year ago

      You hit the nerve and you are so damn right in this statement!!!

    • Too Ren
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      -11 year ago

      No it’s because people are annoyed by spam and they perceive that as spam

      • Cynthias Cheeks
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        1 year ago

        So posting a pic and having a link in your bio is spam? A link that you would have to click through to see? A link you would have to specificly hunt for? I haven’t clicked on every single pic posted, but I hardly see anyone posting any links in the comments here.

        • @[email protected]
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          31 year ago

          Let’s get the honest truth out there: complaining about spam is the single, solitary way these micropenis douche bags have of feeling like they have some kind of moral superiority over a beautiful woman they know they will never get to touch. Porn masturbation is their entire sex life and that leaves much to be desired, so they throw in some spam reports to feel powerful instead of just pathetic. It’s that simple.

        • Too Ren
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          11 year ago

          Posting the same pic 100 times is spamming

          • Cynthias Cheeks
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            1 year ago

            That is not the situation OP was talking about nor what I have experienced with rude comments on here. I’ve gotten rude comments with maybe reposting a single pic a total of 3 times before I really leaned this site. I haven’t seen every pic but I haven’t seen much spamming here at all.

            • Too Ren
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              -21 year ago

              People complain whenever anyone of any gender does anything they don’t like on the internet… I use mostly gay communities and see the same things?

              • Cynthias Cheeks
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                21 year ago

                But not usually in lesbian communities…so the common thread seems to be men.

                • Too Ren
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                  -21 year ago

                  Okay? That doesn’t make it misogynistic

      • @[email protected]
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        21 year ago

        Believing that women should do exactly what you like and only what you like, and that hateful comments are a good way to respond anytime you’re not happy about what they do… yeah, actually that’s misogyny. No really I checked, and you’re wrong, trust me. Just Google it.