• Gabe BellOP
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      12 days ago

      I’m sorry – are you criticising my grammar?

      How else would you phrase this?

      • @[email protected]
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        2 days ago

        “Is sat” is uncommon in American English. It would more commonly be “is sitting.” Are you from the UK?

        • Gabe BellOP
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          22 days ago

          Yes.

          And I have used “is sat” my entire life – which is quite a long time.

            • @Cort
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              22 days ago

              I think it feels weird mixing verb tenses, but it’s still comprehendable

              • @[email protected]
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                22 days ago

                Yes, perfectly understandable. Can remove lot word and tense in English still understand what say.

              • Gabe BellOP
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                12 days ago

                It’s literally never occurred to me before.

                There were plenty of times when a scene would be described as “We see the family on a normal Saturday night. Dad is sat in front of the TV, mum is sat at the table, doing a jigsaw. The kids are sat on the floor, playing a game”

                That was the language I grew up with, and to use “sitting” instead of sat" would just have sounded weird.

                I mean – “the family is sitting down to dinner”, sure – that sounds normal because it is something they are doing. But if it is passive speech (so to speak) then why would anyone use “sitting”? It’s just weird.

                • @Cort
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                  22 days ago

                  I think I’d tend to use has/had sat instead of is sat, but that would make it past tense not passive. But at this point I’ve thought about the word sat enough times that it’s begun to lose its meaning.