• Vivian (they/them)
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    2 days ago

    And yet some kids do know they’re totally straight, or gay, or transgender, before they even turn 12, or 11, etc.

    They might not have the vocabulary to express it, and others might not know how it works or how they feel, so that’s just all the more reason to teach them.

    Imagine if we treated any other subject like this: “oh the children have no idea how it works, lets not subject them to it”. It doesn’t make sense, of course they don’t understand if they’ve never heard of it.

    • Flying Squid
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      I knew I was into girls when I was five. I didn’t know what heterosexuality (or any other sexuality) was, but I knew girls made me feel a way that boys didn’t. And when I did learn that there were boys who felt that way about boys like I did about girls, it was about my much older brother’s college roommate and eventual best friend, who is gay. I think maybe I was seven.

      Somehow it didn’t destroy me.

      • Vivian (they/them)
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        And you knowing gay people exist when you were 7 didn’t turn you gay? Whoah, that’s soo surprising /s

        Somehow knowing gay and straight people exist somehow didn’t turn me anything, I’m ace, it’s almost as if it has nothing to do with it…


        Sometimes I wonder with these bigots, like how does their worldview even remotely make sense? (not talking about you ofc to be clear)