• @captainlezbian
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    81 day ago

    Dominance and sexual position are unrelated to these roles.

    • djsoren19
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      -11 day ago

      yeah when I meant dominant I meant like “taking the lead”, not in a sexual sense. Like, would the butch always drive? As a bottom, I never drive myself, I let the top do that.

      • @captainlezbian
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        217 hours ago

        Yeah that’s not a thing that happens with us. I’m a femme who fixes stuff in my home. Honestly not even the gay men in my life are like that