Truthfully I don’t that I have any specific suggestions, although I see some others have chimed in. One thing I will say though is that, unless it’s a “literally anyone with a heartbeat will do” situation, even if you both are not looking for a relationship and it’s just a hookup or friend with benefits there’s still going to be a similar amount of legwork and vetting as it it were dating. That’s why you kind of have to think of it as such.