Honestly I’m starting to feel like I have nothing to offer. Everyone always asks what I bring to the table. When both people are working what exactly do you want me to bring to the table?
You either find something you like in me (like my mentality, personality, appearance) or you don’t, I don’t get it.
Do you want me to slave away for you or something? Also I’m pretty introverted so I cant offer you social ties or community for the most part. Guess I’m useless.
I genuinely don’t feel like most people are THAT special. Like most people aren’t rocket scientists who also have 59 obscure hobbies and write dissertations in their spare time. Wtf do people want? A positive outlook?
Ok I have a positive outlook to offer you. They’re gonna laugh in my face when I say that. Oh I’m also quirky by the way. Not like the other girls. Teehee.
Simply, be a person someone would want to spend time with and (probably) be intimate with.
Flip it around, what would you want in a partner? If you can recognize what you care about or don’t, you’ll have a better understanding of someone else doing the same thing.
Obviously everyone is different and there aren’t perfect rules, but make the effort to self reflect.
I’ve never self reflected before, thanks for the tidbit