Honestly I’m starting to feel like I have nothing to offer. Everyone always asks what I bring to the table. When both people are working what exactly do you want me to bring to the table?
You either find something you like in me (like my mentality, personality, appearance) or you don’t, I don’t get it.
Do you want me to slave away for you or something? Also I’m pretty introverted so I cant offer you social ties or community for the most part. Guess I’m useless.
I genuinely don’t feel like most people are THAT special. Like most people aren’t rocket scientists who also have 59 obscure hobbies and write dissertations in their spare time. Wtf do people want? A positive outlook?
Ok I have a positive outlook to offer you. They’re gonna laugh in my face when I say that. Oh I’m also quirky by the way. Not like the other girls. Teehee.
I think you need to learn to appreciate yourself. Try to make a list of positive things about yourself. It may be hard at first, but you’ve already made a good start with positive outlook and quirkiness. Go on, list anything that can be seen in a positive light. If you do this more than once, you’ll end up with a long list of things you can bring to the table and perhaps with a better feeling about yourself.
I mean I’m fine with myself but I’m not about to try to convince someone to date me. If they need to be convinced I don’t want them