im 157cm (5′2) 26yo male i have been in a realationship for 3years and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends. if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls. im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys. im thinking about doing it to get to 5′6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing. im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty

  • BillDaCatt
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    1 month ago

    That kind of surgery can leave you disfigured like you were in a car accident and will likely lead to bone issues later in life.

    As a tall man, I can tell you that personality is way more important. Girls who actually care about your height are not worth your time.

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      1 month ago

      I don’t disagree at all but this sounds like “As a lottery winner, I can tell you that money doesn’t matter much”

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      1 month ago

      you are right about that. im also thinking that if I will get this surgery and i will get some girl. when i go to sleep at night with her i will probably will think " hmmm, was she still dating me if i was 157 cm as before" and that will f with my head