LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Witches VS Patriarchy@lemmy.caEnglish · 1 year agoFair pointpiefed.cdn.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square42linkfedilinkarrow-up1431arrow-down132
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minus-squareBroadfernlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6arrow-down1·1 year agoI have a hard time with this because I would feel the same way about purposely making my friends and loved ones uncomfortable in this situation. I’d definitely make anti-nazi jokes to make a nazi uncomfortable though, but that’s beliefs and not gender. I’d also not call a nazi my friend.
minus-squareDejected Warp Corelinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 year agoNazis actively break the social contract, so that’s an exception and an open invitation to turn the tables, as far as I’m concerned.
minus-squarehomura1650linkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 year agoTo be clear, your Nazi example is entirely consistent: Make anti-women joke with the intent of making women uncomfortable/angry - you are anti-women Make anti-men joke with the intent of making men uncomfortable/angry - you are anti-men Make anti-Nazi joke with the intent of making Nazis uncomfortable/angry - you are anti-Nazi If you are OK with some of these and not others, that just reflects your value judgement on those groups.
I have a hard time with this because I would feel the same way about purposely making my friends and loved ones uncomfortable in this situation.
I’d definitely make anti-nazi jokes to make a nazi uncomfortable though, but that’s beliefs and not gender. I’d also not call a nazi my friend.
Nazis actively break the social contract, so that’s an exception and an open invitation to turn the tables, as far as I’m concerned.
To be clear, your Nazi example is entirely consistent:
If you are OK with some of these and not others, that just reflects your value judgement on those groups.