😈MedicPig🐷BabySaver😈 to AmITheAssholeEnglish · 1 month ago

AITA for not speaking to a life long friend because I want an apology?

😈MedicPig🐷BabySaver😈 to AmITheAssholeEnglish · 1 month ago

AITA, on April 29th, I noticed a FB post from my BFF, it’s theme was about “leaving a party early”.

My BFF notoriously falls asleep early and drifts away from any gatherings at his house.

In the comments section, I posted a photo from about '92-'93, of him sleeping on a couch. I’m in the photo behind the couch. Two other friends are at each end of the couch. Either sitting on the armrest or leaning on it. No booze, drugs or anyone flipping the bird. IMO: very innocent photo.

A couple of days after my photo comment, he sent at least 3 text in rapid fire mode. Essentially “screaming” at me to delete that photo.

It took a brief moment to get onto FB and delete that photo. But, those texts all came in faster than I could take care of the situation.

Keep in mind, it’s on HIS FB page, he had full control to delete the photo himself. Then, he could’ve “yelled” at me via text/phone call.

IMO: he owes me an apology for the way he “screamed” at me via text. We haven’t said more than “Hey.” at any group gatherings since the episode.

AITA?

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He’s practically a tree… Skinny, 6’2".
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  US and England with their foot fetish… You mean 1,88 meters 😉
  
  See, I try to help, and I’m being a dick at the same time. It’s difficult to make friends.
  
  Edit: I didn’t downvote BTW, and I don’t thing anyone is the asshole.
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    A tree none the less.

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