(Oh you’re fine! Obviously I just hate talking about kink…)
“Hurt me = cum” is admittedly a bit of an oversimplification on my part: context does matter (if your dentist hauled off and kissed you in the middle of a procedure you’d probably be more confused than turned on) for example, but more relevant is the type of pain - oral stuff doesn’t do it for me (okay, it does, but not the kind of pain you get at the dentist), but shutting my hand in a drawer or really bashing myself on a shelf super can, to the point it makes being clumsy in public really awkward sometimes. You get used to it, sure, but it’s still more of a brain wiring thing than a contextual thing.
The type of pain being relevant makes a lot of sense. I guess that goes for all stimuli - just because I like fairly noisy and repetitive music doesn’t mean I enjoy listening to construction noise.
Does it have to be events of pain or can it be continuous? Is predicament pain like in the picture enough to make you cum?
I find the thought of you hitting your shin or something and having to suppress a moan very charming, by the way. :)
![Incredibly simple tie, but after ten minutes I thought I was going to pass out it hurt so bad ❤️🤤 [F]](https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/d447e051-0f29-45f8-a2f3-df969586a8fb.jpeg){kind=link}
(Oh you’re fine! Obviously I just hate talking about kink…)
“Hurt me = cum” is admittedly a bit of an oversimplification on my part: context does matter (if your dentist hauled off and kissed you in the middle of a procedure you’d probably be more confused than turned on) for example, but more relevant is the type of pain - oral stuff doesn’t do it for me (okay, it does, but not the kind of pain you get at the dentist), but shutting my hand in a drawer or really bashing myself on a shelf super can, to the point it makes being clumsy in public really awkward sometimes. You get used to it, sure, but it’s still more of a brain wiring thing than a contextual thing.
The type of pain being relevant makes a lot of sense. I guess that goes for all stimuli - just because I like fairly noisy and repetitive music doesn’t mean I enjoy listening to construction noise.
Does it have to be events of pain or can it be continuous? Is predicament pain like in the picture enough to make you cum?
I find the thought of you hitting your shin or something and having to suppress a moan very charming, by the way. :)