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    10 months ago

    I can’t always. In my brain, I listen, identify objective/goal (difficult to do with those who speak in paragraphs), then queue a response but politely wait for my turn.

    Unfortunately, this aligns with “waiting to talk” rather than “listening and responding.”

    I try my best but sometimes I find myself snapping back to the conversation, not knowing what happened for the last 10-15 seconds while I was off wondering how it was decided to cook bread again to make toast.

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      10 months ago

      In my brain, I listen, identify objective/goal (difficult to do with those who speak in paragraphs), then queue a response but politely wait for my turn.

      just like me fr fr. Really listening and responding has to be a conscious choice for me and it requires repetition and practice. When the situation allows for it, writing down what’s on my mind helps a lot.