• flandish
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    6 days ago

    there is currently a form of tree or bush growing at my wife’s grave. well its my grave too. she died at 41. It’s pushing on the stone so I don’t know what to do.

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      6 days ago

      I’ll say this. When the time comes will you need to remove the tree for you? If so just remove it now. It’s far too often not considered a problem of placement untill you have a well established 40plus year old tree that has taken over an entire space. It just gets harder to deal with the longer and older you let it get.

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        6 days ago

        true true. i also sometimes wonder how far the roots go. <3

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        6 days ago

        trunk and root. it’s more of a bush. i had the folks cut it down and it grew back so i may just … leave it an see if it gets an old graveyard feel. /shrug