I’ve been a tomboy from a young age. My friends have always been guys, and I developed a dislike for being around other girls around age 10-11 because the people who bullied me were all girls.
When I was a teenager, I kept hearing that girls and women supposedly have a strong “fishy” smell. I know it’s a meme, but I’d seen and read enough firsthand stories that it stuck with me. I even came across accounts from gay men who said that every woman they knew smelled that way, and that it influenced their attraction to men.
In my case, I seem to be an exception. There’s no fishy smell on myself, just normal skin or sweat when I’m active, or at night when I’m due to shower. But that actually made me even more uncomfortable around groups of girls and women, because I really hate the smell of fish or seafood in general, and if there’s a lot of women in a room, that smell lingers even after they’ve left.
Sometimes I feel embarrassed, because people see me, see that I’m female, and I worry they automatically assume I’ve got a rotting crab factory somewhere.
Think the fishy smell thing comes from men who see women as vaginas with some other stuff attached.
No, it’s a real thing that can happen with poor hygiene, but it’s almost never strong enough to smell unless you basically have your head down there.
It’s certainly not strong enough to smell from across the room unless the woman hasn’t cleaned themselves in an extended period of time, at which point it would probably be overshadowed by her armpits.
Nothing like going down and coming right back up