I met a girl on hinge, we hit it off, the conversation was great and we were both really into it. We planned a first date. The date honestly felt magical. It was as if time flew by. We then plan a second date, we meet. At the end of the night we kissed. We continue to text, I plan a third date for this weekend. She agrees, were supposed to go to a light festival.
The next day she sends me a text where she says she’s not interested in anything romantic and if I’m ok with that, she’ll still go on the date with me. I text her back that it’s a bit weird for me to suddenly switch so I want to cancel the date because I’d need some time if we were to be just friends. She then tells me that’s she’s there if I ever want to talk.
Honestly, I’ll probably never reach out again but I do wonder if I did the right thing.


Bro she either found someone she likes more or found something she doesn’t like about you. Don’t hang around hoping that will change. Her loss.
Yup, this. Had a girl I really liked do this to me once. Tried to guilt trip me when I said that I had no interest in still hanging out after. I told her we can be friendLY, but we can’t be friends. No reason to keep up the charade.