I met a girl on hinge, we hit it off, the conversation was great and we were both really into it. We planned a first date. The date honestly felt magical. It was as if time flew by. We then plan a second date, we meet. At the end of the night we kissed. We continue to text, I plan a third date for this weekend. She agrees, were supposed to go to a light festival.

The next day she sends me a text where she says she’s not interested in anything romantic and if I’m ok with that, she’ll still go on the date with me. I text her back that it’s a bit weird for me to suddenly switch so I want to cancel the date because I’d need some time if we were to be just friends. She then tells me that’s she’s there if I ever want to talk.

Honestly, I’ll probably never reach out again but I do wonder if I did the right thing.

  • MantisToboggon
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    10 days ago

    Bro she either found someone she likes more or found something she doesn’t like about you. Don’t hang around hoping that will change. Her loss.

    • Raiderkev
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      9 days ago

      Yup, this. Had a girl I really liked do this to me once. Tried to guilt trip me when I said that I had no interest in still hanging out after. I told her we can be friendLY, but we can’t be friends. No reason to keep up the charade.