Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
STD’s are more likely ( don’t know what factor ) to go from male to female, than from female to male: you can find healthcare warnings about that…
& why would he care if his partner gets pregnant? that isn’t his-culture’s idea of what matters, right?
that, itself, is a character-assessment.
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