• manualoverrideBanned from community
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    13 hours ago

    Maybe those men see feminists on the internet mainly complain about men, rather than attempting to make positive changes?

    This entire thread is just a bait, and the level of misandry I see when this sub appears on my feed is depressing.

    Let’s try and be nice to each other.

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      13 hours ago

      Rule 1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.

      Being on the internet and making positive changes in one’s community are not mutually exclusive.

      I don’t see any misandry here tbh.

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        12 hours ago

        The first sentence in the top comment on this thread: “In the many times I’ve had men (and some women ffs)”

        Sounds like “Gender critical talk” and misandry to me. But I’m going to bow out now.

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          Sounds like this is a space for women to talk about these things that we experience when talking to others on this subject.

          Her personal experience talking to the men she has spoken to on this topic is valid. She did not say “all men” as you are clearly assuming.

          We’re allowed our own spaces here ffs.

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      9 hours ago

      Yeah it’s usually not feminists that complain about men, it’s just women complaining about male behaviours and refusing to put up with bullshit.

      There is a lot to complain about. Hell we’re at the point where there’s documentaries about it. Stop crying about being called out for being an ass.