• OctopusNemeses
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    17 小时前

    They don’t see it that way cause they think being a top isn’t gay.

    • Asidonhopo
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      11 小时前

      I thought it was obvious that the top is the gayest of the two by virtue of putting his penis in a man, rather than a woman.

    • BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today
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      14 小时前

      For a lot of these guys, it seems being gay is more about the stereotypical gay behavior. Discrete sex with other men is fine, but acting stereotypical is Gay.