I want to have a nice sexual surprise for my partner. What would you do/have done that works?
(Not going to break up with them, just getting ahead of that train.)
I want to have a nice sexual surprise for my partner. What would you do/have done that works?
(Not going to break up with them, just getting ahead of that train.)
If it’s a toy, before engaging in intercourse say “Look what I’ve got!”
If it’s an act, first ask if you may surprise them in intercourse, then once you have that consent be extremely ready to stop everything if they don’t like it. Remember that consent can be revoked at any time and it’s important for any sexual partner to respect that