I have both autism and ADHD, and I just feel pretty awful since I graduated college. I’m really low-functioning; most of the time, I can’t even get basic household tasks done, much less find a job. My funds are dwindling, and soon paying for HRT will be a challenge. I feel like it wasn’t this bad when I was younger; I’m now 21 and it’s starting to get unbearable. I cannot really get meds cause I don’t have insurance.
So, as much as I wish I could do something directly to help, (this is where Reddit really shines due to the large user base). There are likely support systems in your area. If your have a diagnosis for your specific conditions I would expect a disability support might be available at least for the ADHD meds. Can’t say for the HRT. it might be useful to those that can help too list where you are in the world as a starting point. Perhaps someone who is in the field can point you in the right direction. Otherwise I would consider trying a post on Reddit. As much as the site owners are garbage, the users can often be extremely helpful. Hang in there, you can only move forward one step at a time, and taking small steps is still moving forward.