• Stoneykins [any]
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    71 year ago

    I had a better relationship with forgiveness when I started thinking about it being for my benefit.

    Being angry at or hating someone is hard, takes mental energy, and is stressful. Letting that go can be a huge relief.

    …and there is no reason to forgive someone if doing so would be self-destructive or potentially harmful to you in other ways.