• RebekahWSD
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    1 day ago

    I’m top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras.

    Maybe it’s my autism speaking though, I’ve heard most women don’t mind a bra, whereas it’s actual fucking torture to me to wear a “well fitting” bra.

    • nasalpitch17@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      20 hours ago

      I was 42 years old when I finally gave myself permission to jusy wear my super comfy nursing sleeping bras all the time (I haven’t nursed for two years). It’s enough support for me (also top heavy) without any of the hastle that every mf bra has something that feels like torture.

      It’s liberating.

    • CultLeader4Hire
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      20 hours ago

      Women generally hate bras, at least in my experience. I’ve met a few young women who claimed they didn’t mind or women who wear them because they need to but I’ve never heard a woman express enjoyment about wearing a bra

      • Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        5 hours ago

        I guess its a bit more nuanced. Sometimes it might be dislike because of society taboos of going without one. But there are good parts, they can make you feel good about yourself, push-ups exist and are popular for a reason. As somebody without a huge amount to work with I do enjoy the shape and silhouette a good one can give even if its not the most comfortable thing in the world.