If you never saw something anywhere close to this and you’ve NEVER been told something like this by a friend the chances are pretty high that they just never told you.

Sure that depends on what exactly you mean by “anything close to this”, but when you look up sexual harrasment statistics it’s pretty much impossible.

Also there is the possibility that you read those situations very differently, as you said some people are blind to it so you should consider the possibility that you are blind to it yourself.