Hi all,
As our community is still small and not overly active, I thought instead of trying to have a weekly or monthly chatter thread up as a sticky, we could try a perpetual one and see what happens.
So anything you feel doesn’t warrant a post of its own, just put it here.
Cheers and take care!
Honestly I feel that since so few people want to date me, its probably best for a person like me to leave ALL avenues open necause a person with few options has to try many more things than the averahe person in oder to get what or who they eventually want right? I dont think Ill rely heavily on onlime datimg, and by this I mean Ill only check my onlime dating profiles omce a month or so, and then Ill rely on IRL cold and hot apprpaching and hobby triangulation since my best experiences have come from IRL approaching . Also ot kinda boosts my confidence a little.
Oddly but I actually met the first persom I would ever date whenthey liked onee of my photos that I posted on my profile and I messaged tem back. They were also childfree and non-binary (So I guess I did technically tell somelne else Im childfree lol) but then they ghosted me a couole weeks later afterr our first dste. They said they. enjoyed thr datr and theu kept on saying they enjoyed the date and talking to me…but then they ghosted me… I told them that ‘if I did something erong please let me know and Im sorry but I wish you the best.’…and…that was the end of that forever…