• @Will_Not_Grow_UpB
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    01 year ago

    I really am sorry you’re going through that, but this also unfortunately proves my point. Good luck with your depression I really hope you have an amazing support system, and don’t forget to thank them.

    I pick my battles, I’m weak and I don’t have it in me to be the support a stranger needs, If I can only give it my all for one person, it’s going to be my family. There’s just no more room for others, he takes what little I can give.

    • @neatchee
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      11 year ago

      This will be my last response:

      Going through that? It’s not something I’m “going through”. It’s a condition I’ve had almost all my life and it’s well managed for a long time now. I’m not asking for your support. Just your understanding. And that’s what you don’t get. Compassion costs you nothing, but you can’t even do that

      ✌️

      • @Will_Not_Grow_UpB
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        11 year ago

        Again, you’re proving my point. I just finished telling you a story of my struggle. How my love and understanding and support of my brother who I love just takes it’s toll on me and my family and I still help and love him. How I struggle, how I am sad and how I am at my wits end and yet I still help him. I give all that I can to him so I am unable to help others because of it, but you only read a small part of it and I became the bad guy.

        I don’t know in what voice you’ve been reading our conversation, but I was not angry, or yelling or seething our entire conversation. It’s difficult to display emotion in text, so I encourage you to re-read what I wrote, but instead of picturing a person yelling or trying to start an argument, picture a broken man trying to keep his family intact while he has a force breaking him down every step of this way, but every time he tries to get away, all he sees is the little brother he shared his Gameboy with so they could both play Pokemon.

        I am sorry you took the words going through as though I meant some disrespect, but as I sit here wondering how I’m the bad guy for hoping you have a great support system, I come back to the point I was originally making. It’s difficult to interact with people that suffer with mental disorders, everyone is the bad guy, and if someone does not help them specifically, then they must not care. When in fact we could be suffering too, but don’t have a diagnosis, so we just don’t get it, and we have to be on their side or we’re the problem.

        • @neatchee
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          1 year ago

          Yeah, you told me a sad story in a thread about other people. You turned it into a conversation about yourself instead of thinking about the perspective of others

          You’re the one not listening. I’ve been talking about other people this entire time and all you can think about is yourself and how hard it was for you and your bad memories.

          I’m doing fine. I don’t need your support. I’m not asking for your support. Not once have I told you that you should support me.

          I’m trying to tell you that compassion is free. You aren’t being asked to take care of anyone. You’re being asked not to place the blame at the feet of people who are suffering, and not to point at people who struggle and call them sick because “only an unwell person would do that.”

          You sound really narcissistic. Even your efforts to come off as supportive were performative and came back around to “but I said the thing, so I’m the good guy”.

          I don’t think you’re being aggressive. I don’t think you’re being mean. I don’t think you’re angry or hateful.

          I think you’re selfish.

          Muting you now so I don’t keep seeing your self-pitying excuses for why you should shun those who struggle with mental health. It’s really starting to make me sick