Not in a patriarchal way of wanting more rights, but wanting to be them. When I see men who dress and act like old-timey gentlemen or see feminine men, I want to be like them.
When I picture my ideal self, I picture a taller, more scrawny-looking guy who’s into alternative fashion.
Real quick question: how do you see yourself when you’re 80 years old?
With some very strong glasses and a mirror?
Everyone is scrawny when they’re bones.