• yoissy
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    4 days ago

    When someone else shares their thoughts on a woman, they’re fucked up and evil. When I do it, I’m just expressing my opinion.

    • MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 days ago

      “I think she’s attractive” or “I don’t personally think she’s attractive” = okay “She looks like a fat cow” = not okay

      I don’t personally believe this is gender-specific, or subscribe to the idea that women are allowed to thirst over women publicly and men aren’t, but we ought to all be on the same page that it’s not okay to compare a woman to a cow, and so therefore no hypocrisy occurred. Just consider time and place, and be respectful, and it’s fine.

    • velma@sh.itjust.works
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      4 days ago

      Sharing that you prefer the woman in the image without makeup is different than saying you find her attractive.

      Do you understand the difference?

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        4 days ago

        One makes femcels mad and the other also makes them mad but in a different way