What if he does? Who cares? I’m glad he has a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Why do you care about whether things make it look like someone has sex with men? Does having sex with men make you less masculine? Because boy, I’ve seen some gay men that are waaaayyyy more masculine than 90% of the internet.

So what’s the deal, are you insecure about your masculinity? Are you afraid you might like men and want to make sure your outward performance doesn’t betray you? Friendo, it’s 2023, you should come out. Sure it’s hard at first, but most people who come out seem overall way happier after. And there are huge communities of people here and elsewhere ready to take you in and support you.

But if that’s not the case, maybe you should look inward and figure what about yourself is making you so insecure that you can’t even wear a watch without being worried about what others think about. Stop painting your insecurities on others and maybe work on yourself a bit.