The problem is when they react poorly to our contribution, we internalize the error as our own flaw rather than recognizing we picked shitty people to socialize with.

  • Kojichan
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    16 days ago

    Half of my issue is I forget what was said because Im too focused on responding to that one thing that interestead me about 5 minutes ago, and the topic has changed.

    Another is being in a group. Even harder.

    Then add being jn a group of people who are speaking a different language that I’m only 60% proficient with… I don’t have a place to enter.

    Other times it’s because Im with another ND…

    I honestly feel like Im not allowed to speak sometimes.

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      16 days ago

      Other times it’s because Im with another ND…

      In a large group there are bound to be multiple NDs. If you all follow the method, you end up in a smaller group with each other. This is ideal.