Eh, life can change wife, life can change husband. Sometimes it’s great for a couple years, then not. Doesn’t mean wife not good. Just not the best fit anymore.
Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.
And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.
It’s because the thread starts out all negative, everyone contributes with their negativity, if you come in and say that your wife’s great and y’all are best friends, everyone jumps down your throat and gets nasty. Who’d sign up for that?
Edit: case in point right here lmao. Sorry y’all have such bad relationships with your wives.
TIL it is shallow positivity to compliment and appreciate your wife. Y’all are fucking miserable. I’d hate to interact with anyone like you in real life.
I think you misread the comment that you originally replied to. They are saying exactly the opposite of what you are saying here. “It’s NOT […] just shallow positivity”
Still a tad cynical, though, since even the “shallow” wholesome memes still have good intentions most of the time (spreading a tiny bit of positivity is better than spreading negativity) - though I can understand the perspective that if it’s too shallow it can rub you the wrong way especially if you’re having a bad day - like being told “just cheer up!” if you’re depressed
I agree! Before I left reddit, there was this comic that basically spammed the sad comics subreddit before being exiled to its own. It was called “Marriage is Bliss” and I absolutely hate it. It’s all about how horrible the wife is and how pathetic the husband is, and how much his life sucks. This strip is sweet, I like it. I can relate to it.
Yay a wholesome meme! Too many “wife bad marriage annoying” memes so this one is a breath of fresh air.
Edit: lot of salty dudes in the comments
Wife good. Marriage awesome.
If wife isn’t good then wife shouldn’t have been wife in the first place.
My wife’s dope.
Eh, life can change wife, life can change husband. Sometimes it’s great for a couple years, then not. Doesn’t mean wife not good. Just not the best fit anymore.
Why we talk like cavemen?
Me don’t know. Boobs?
Yes.
Why use many word, when few word do trick.
Trick is what whore do for money
Or candy!
And you should change if you wanna keep your marriage alive. I always wonder why society considers change to be something bad.
It’s dead, Jim.
We diverged in different directions and split up in friendship. There’s no shame in ending something before both hate eachother.
Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.
And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.
I mean don’t get me wrong, I’m still suffering. But it was the best decision given the situation.
<3
All relationships require work to keep alive, whether it be romantic, platonic, or familial.
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Totally! Was just trying to say that change is necessary either way. We can not expect life to be the same forever.
You are wise for a perogi.
i like the saying that your partner should also be your best friend
If ur partner is not your best friend then why are they your partner?
But I already have a best friend
You can have more than one
Although I agree in practice, the pedant in me thinks that best is exclusive to a singular entity.
You can like two people just as much, but for different reasons.
Suit yourself but life’s definitely more fun when you open yourself up to friends
I’m legitimately surprised to find a comment thread on Lemmy with people in a healthy long term relationship, what a find
It’s because the thread starts out all negative, everyone contributes with their negativity, if you come in and say that your wife’s great and y’all are best friends, everyone jumps down your throat and gets nasty. Who’d sign up for that?
Edit: case in point right here lmao. Sorry y’all have such bad relationships with your wives.
Honestly I think a large portion of lemmings are single and bitter and it shows. This one is a nice change
Are we lemmings ? I assumed we were lemurs
This comment is the only negative thing I have seen in the whole thread besides the wierdo right on the bottom
Work! Glory to your houuuuuuse!
Husband good, marriage awesome. 12 years this month ❤️
69 upvotes. Nice.
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Sorry officer
I’ll let this one slip, but let this be a lesson to you!
Username two letters shy of checking out.
And it’s not one of those “wholesome” memes that’s just shallow positivity
Must be miserable being you then!
wtf ?
TIL it is shallow positivity to compliment and appreciate your wife. Y’all are fucking miserable. I’d hate to interact with anyone like you in real life.
You’re replying to the wrong person
I think you misread the comment that you originally replied to. They are saying exactly the opposite of what you are saying here. “It’s NOT […] just shallow positivity”
Still a tad cynical, though, since even the “shallow” wholesome memes still have good intentions most of the time (spreading a tiny bit of positivity is better than spreading negativity) - though I can understand the perspective that if it’s too shallow it can rub you the wrong way especially if you’re having a bad day - like being told “just cheer up!” if you’re depressed
thats not very wholesome 100 of you uwu
I agree! Before I left reddit, there was this comic that basically spammed the sad comics subreddit before being exiled to its own. It was called “Marriage is Bliss” and I absolutely hate it. It’s all about how horrible the wife is and how pathetic the husband is, and how much his life sucks. This strip is sweet, I like it. I can relate to it.
Wife still annoyed, dont think its that wholesome.
Wife often annoyed. Can’t fix everything. Wife know me love her, wife still let me see after shower. Is wholesome.
That good wife.
I don’t think she’s annoyed, just sort of neutrally going about her business.
She doesn’t seem annoyed, more like perplexed.