The first step is always admitting it’s a problem. And you’d be surprised how often just saying I was being a asshole and I’m sorry helps. Even if they don’t forgive you, acknowledging the mistakes helps you not make them again.
Source: a recovering dickhead (me)
Are you a generally dislikable person?
yes
I appreciate that you are a very honest and self-aware person.
The first step is always admitting it’s a problem. And you’d be surprised how often just saying I was being a asshole and I’m sorry helps. Even if they don’t forgive you, acknowledging the mistakes helps you not make them again.
Source: a recovering dickhead (me)