I come from a family with fairly rural roots. My parents were the only ones among their siblings to pursue college, and they raised me with an immense appreciation for education and the opportunities it brings. I currently hold a Masters degree in engineering and would like to pursue Law or an MBA in the future. My academic experience and qualifications are a significant part of who I am as an adult. As I continue to grow, I’ve noticed that it becomes harder to connect with some loved ones who are less educated and ultimately less adept at thinking critically and having discussions. I find that ideas, that to me are obvious, sometimes require significant effort from others to appreciate the full depth. Furthermore, I have also found that on average people are not interested in connecting with one another as deeply as I’m interested. For example, if I ask a question, I truly want to know the answer, I’m not just queuing up my own thoughts as response. I always try to be poetic and gracious when explaining these feelings because I’d imagine this would be received better than saying “I think people are dumb and hard to connect with”, but that’s how I feel a lot of times in plain English. I am interested in learning better ways to maintain relationships with people I may have these feelings my about.


I see you, and I can relate. Sorry to hear about your family tho, we did not chose who to be born with but thankfully we can find our own communities or friendsgroup where we hopefully can find social satisfaction and belonging.
I have since moved away from that town but there i found a community around pholosophy, it started out as a social event but I quickly found people who took their time to go out and discuss philosophy every second tuesday had a certain depth, many of then were not that socially sharp but for sure was cuorius people and it led to beautiful friendships.
So what i want to say is people can be interesting but many are just exhausted and jist struggle with the daily life, some are just shallow people, but to go to some events or activities that attract a certain group can be really benificial for one who is a seeker of meaningfull relations.
Another advice I have is also traveling, on many hostels I have found great people!
So now i saw the last bit of text… and realize I gave nothing of value to what you asked.