I don’t know if I’m extremely disappointed or extremely impressed that nobody on this thread seems to have commented on the word choice of “widespread” when discussing the use of bidets.

Also, the only legit answer here is that there are fragile, ignorant men who think that a bidet makes you “gay” - these men are idiots with dirty, stinky assholes and stains on their underwear that their poor wives routinely clean for them.