The question assumes that you are in mixed company and not just by yourself at your home.

  • @SkaraBrae
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    1 year ago

    It depends.

    • If you are dining, then place it on the far side of your plate.
    • If you are sitting at a table, but not dining, then place it approximately halfway between the dining position and the table edge.
    • If you are standing by the table, then I’d go with about 4"-6" from the table edge.
    • If you are standing by the table in a high traffic area, then I’d go with 6"-8".
    • If you notice someone nearby who is particularly animated when speaking, then I’d aim for the centre of the table.

    This answer assumes the table in question is a dining table. Coffee tables are a whole different kettle of fish; and don’t even get me started on side tables, bureaus and credenzas!

    Edit: formatting

    • @mrgoodc4t
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      111 year ago

      I need to know your credenza rules

    • @Brainsploosh
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      101 year ago

      This is fantastic. I want to lick your brain (in an appreciative and consensual way).

      I found I disagreed strongly, but that was for standing tables, for dining tables I agree without reservation. Well phrased!